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婚姻就像一间房间,关上了门是整齐还是脏乱都没人知道。如果是整齐的话,那就是很幸福;如果是脏乱的话,很多人在收拾了一半后就放弃了,选择去开另一间房间的门。可是另一间房间到底是整齐还是脏乱,又有谁知道呢?—— 《Only You 只有你》


Monday, September 14, 2009

注册后の心情

经过了改<姐>换<太>的日子,心情开始慢慢平复,也要开始适应“婚后”的日子了。

很多人都问我,注册了有什么感受?升级了,不再是小姐了咯,要当人家老婆了,脾气要收敛一点,不能再那么任性了。。。。老实说他们比我妈妈还长气,哈哈!不过还是要谢谢他们的关心,真的!

然后还有一个常被问到的,就是。。。你们住在一起了吗?答案是,没有。然后就会有很多问题炮轰而至,为什么?做么?这样那样。。。其实住在一起不是要出嫁过门的吗?我还舍不得我住了二十多年的家呢!

其实除了身份上的转变,暂时还没有觉得有什么不妥,只是一时改不了口叫你老公,有点难为情,所以还是唤对方作Dar。也许因为我们还是住在各自的家,所以还没有嫁过去的感觉吧?我想在过门那一天就真的会紧张了,还要面对改口的勇气,想到就有点怕怕~~

注册了,你说责任变大了。每天都在为了我们的将来奔波,希望给我过好日子,看到你那么辛苦,我想说:老公,我不需要你很有钱,我只要你好好爱我疼我,那我就会很幸福了!我们要共同进退哦~

虽然现在距离婚期还有两个多月的时间,但是你知道,时间总是在不知不觉中流失,现在也要开始继续筹备了。看着elfin在为她的婚事奔波操心,我就看到我之后的样子,一定差不了多少了。。。

下一步要做什么呢?就是要处理新房咯,这次可真是大工程了~♥

22 份幸福留言:

lydianchua said...

在也不是小姐了,就做好妻子的本分。。
虽然你舍了这个家,却得了另外一个家。。
即使你结婚了,依然可以回娘家呀。。
一时改口是有点难,慢慢你就可以适应了。。

白白0531 said...

其实每个人都面对着同样的问题..."改不了口叫人"...

我的难题是改不了口叫他妈妈...我们注册都一年了,我还是叫他妈妈 aunt..

不知道为什么嘴巴就是开不了....真辛苦勒...

想到结婚敬茶要叫,就。。。

luvfeelin said...

此家非彼家啊,到底是不一样的。。
不过我有和老公说过,结婚后我还是会回娘家睡觉的,一个星期2、3天不过分吧?
现在我老公每天都在我家睡,大概是想多陪我吧,赫赫~~
一时改口是真的很难,不过还是得克服,毕竟他是我男人的妈妈,没有她就没有我老公了~

lydianchua said...

说的没有错。。
但是还是有一个安乐窝。。
你老公真好,给你一个星期住2,3天不错。。
是呀!慢慢啦!久了你就会叫了。。

luvfeelin said...

赫赫~~因为我们的家很靠近的。。开车大约15分钟而已 ^^

lydianchua said...

我看到那些留言我笑了。。
因为都不是我写的,都是你从cari post过来的。。
感觉你做两个角色。。

luvfeelin said...

唉,我要留住你们的讯息啊~
在这里的所有留言,都会自动存去我的email的,所以可以留住大家给我的祝福嘛~
不过即使是我post的,也还是你们写的嘛,我什么都没改哦!^^

lydianchua said...

在cari那边也是可以留着呀!
你这样post来post去,辛苦你了。。
等你的mail满了,也是会被删除掉。。

luvfeelin said...

赫赫。。在自己的家里是不一样的~~
我的gmail很大的,文字也用不了多少空间,所以表担心^^

alaine said...

hihi... ady finish ur blog..
but lazy to comment la.. haha..

who say after register must live together? me also still living my home,n my hubby live at his home... one week 2/3 times sleep at my home..like out pakto time...nothing changes..

lol.. i think i wont 改口叫"老公"..
ady called he "b" for 5 years, so hard to change..
and is same meaning mah... (b=hubby)haha...
n he still calling me "b" too (b=baby)

called his mom for "aunty" 5 years, sudd need to change to "mother".. feel so weird la...haha..

me now still calling she "aunty", not yet change..my friend them keep asking y still call aunty, shld be call mother ady..

i said i not yet 过门,i will still call aunty but not mother lor..

luvfeelin said...

lolz...i can understand my blog is full, but sure la coz i spend half year to develop this blog le~

after register i also din move to his house yet, coz havent 过门 also, sumore still need to deco 新房,so mafan if move now, and actually i miss my house since ady stay for over 20 years...

after R.O.M he almost everyday at my place to teman me, maybe he also know wat i think ^^

i still cal his mom aunty also, but sure call mom after AD lo, respect ma ^^

alaine said...

yaya,is a bit mafan if move in b4 deco.. mine is new house not yet start deco... full with my MIL's rubbish, cant stay inside..haha...

agree... is a respect...just afraid sometime will call aunty lor.. since ady call for few years,used to it ady... haha..

like my fren, she ady married one year, not stay with her MIL, sometime back her MIL's house , will ask her MIL as aunty also.. haha...

alaine said...

so good, ur hubby accompany u everyday..
mine ya... sigh..
since have new car, keep going out with fren to "show off" his car, n back home everyday..
didnt accompany me..

luvfeelin said...

haha...i scare i cant remember to cal her mom too lolz~

my hubby say he will not ignore me no matter how busy he is...and he really do it ^^

y ur hubby din bring u along one?

墮天使-祥 said...

我來了。恭喜!恭喜!
酒席有預我嗎?

luvfeelin said...

你来啦~~谢谢啦!
酒席只留给亲友,自由餐要不要?^^

alaine said...

lol.. i not even know he out with who..haha..

luvfeelin said...

u din ask him means u trust him lo~
but he so loyal to u so u no need worry la ^^

alaine said...

haha... trust is trust, but if really anything happen, n i cant get contact with his hp, then how.. i told him few times ady, sometime he will tell he out with who, go where... but sometime not.. when he go mahjong, snooker, he wont tell lor.. haha.. afraid i scold him.. cause always play til 1 /2 am only back home..

but when he outstation,he will told that he go with who..n when his hp no battery, at least i know can contact who to get him lor..

he like a big kid one..need to remind n remind..
but i dun wan act like aunty, keep ngom him..haha...im not his mom mah, y keep ngom him orr..

luvfeelin said...

yalor...so u no apply friend finder? at least you can know his location even he didnt tel you. but not work if his hp is turn off la~my hubby always welcome me to search him one, he dun mind ^^

since you marry him, ady consider si lai ady, then ofcoz u can ngam him lolz~but the most important is to communicate, its true.

墮天使-祥 said...

只要預我一份,自由餐也沒問題。

luvfeelin said...

哈哈~~好噢!
到时候我会在这里登记吧~记得来报名哦~^^

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